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The Women Of Our Time.

she , too , once did not intend to remain au old maid . She had , like "Master Shallow" and his "lawsuit , " her little " fond expectations'' at one time . We all remember that good portrait Sir Walter Scott draAVS in " Guy Mannering " of the

old maid , Miss Bertram , Avith Ensign Binkie's letters in her escritoire , ( cherished souvenir ) , and his little I . O . U ' s ., and depend upon it many an old maid you or I meet and Avot of , has preserved the recollection , thoug h in some altered form and manner ,

of her Ensign Binlde ! Underneath those grey locks and that calm exterior still exists , believe me , a deal of " sentiment , " and many a most p leasant and valuable and friendly " atom , " amid the " atoms" Avith whom Ave

congregate and converse hour by hour , has quietly played that " role" of singleblessedness , because , as the Irishman said , " things Avent contrary , " and " it Avas all mighty disappointing . " I say this to defend " old maids" from the charge

commonly laid against them of Avanting " sentiment , " the ti'uth is , they are often the best example of its reality and its intensity ! But Ave must not shut out also

another side of the question . There are many ladies Avhom Ave all know , and for whom Ave ought to feel profound respect , who , for some reason or another , for " good and sufficient causes them thereto moving , " have remained single through choice , and become old maids by Brevet Rankin

, the lapse of time and the flight of years ! Many there are—most noble specimens of Avomanhood—doing their duty gallantly in all things , Avho have devoted themselves to a single life , perhaps in a sense of responsibility for others , AVIIO have accepted

the position God seemed to mark out for them ; and Avithout fuss , or affectation , or singularity , or pretension , have become willingly the old maid of their family circle , the old maid of the neighbourhood , the old maid of a large " kith and kin " of

troublesome boys and laughing girls . HOAV many we can recall and remember to-day , pleasant , educated , cultivated , refined , gentle , good , and generous , Avho Avere the deli ght of the society which they graced while they lived , aud are tenderly mourned hy those whom they have left behind . How many blameless lives , and unselfish aims , and loving words , and gracious Avorks , and

bettering influences , and happy associations can AVO join still with the term " old maid , " as our memory to-day surveys the " years that are past , " and recalls those figures Avhich fill , and those fond faces which seem to smile out from , the crowded canvas before us . NOAVI feel bound to

, speak honestly and clearly , and I think that the prejudice against old maids , and the jokes against old maids are very un-Avorthy . I do not mean to deny that here and there you will stumble upon the tattling old maidand the scandalous

, old maid , and the flirting old maid , and the bedizened old maid , and the soured old maid , and the cantankerous old maidyou Avill—but what I do say is , that they are the exceptions to the rule , and that those exceptions prove the rule to be the

very contrary . No doubt Avhen you come across her , a real mischievous old maid is a very disagreeable personality , and a godless old maid is a horror ; but such specimens of " old maidendom" are very feAv and far betAveen , and Avhen we do come across them Ave should all give them a " clear berth " as fast as Ave possibly can .

The Avriter of romances , or of novels , may bring in the vicious and meddlesome , and intriguing old maid , but as a general rule such exist only in noi'els and romances , and are not to be found in real life . The old maids I haA'e knoAvn— and I have met many in my career—have been all the

kindest of women and the best of friends . They have set to all around them a quiet example of being good , and doing good , they have been most useful to man , and most faithful to God in their time and generation . They have excelled in many

points and tastes—artistic , literary , benevolent , and humanitarian — they have been self-denying and sedulous in respect of their own lives and means , zealous Avorkers for the good of others ; true sisters of Mercy and Charity have they

proved themselves to be in their time and generation . And I would fain hope that Ave have heard the last Avords of detraction and disrespect against them ! You and I , kind reader , must know many a home , many a village many a family many a neighbourhood Avhere the old maid is as the " very salt of the earth , " shed-ling li g ht and purit y , and

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Monthly Masonic Summary. Article 1
"THE GOOSE AND GRIDIRON," Article 2
DR. RAWLINSON'S MS. Article 3
THE CHARGE. Article 7
THE CREATION. Article 8
AN OLD, OLD STORY. Article 12
BE HAPPY AS YOU CAN. Article 14
SOCIAL PROBLEMS AND THEIR PEACEFUL SOLUTION. Article 15
THE ORIGIN AND REFERENCES OF THE HERMESIAN SPURIOUS FREEMASONRY. Article 18
THE WOMEN OF OUR TIME. Article 20
" GLAMOUR." Article 22
ZOROASTRIANISM AND FREEMASONRY. Article 22
OUT WITH THE TIDE. Article 25
TAKEN BY BRIGANDS. Article 26
MAGIC. Article 32
FAIRY TALES UTILISED FOR THE NEW GENERATION. Article 32
THE MUSICAL ENTHUSIAST. Article 34
CONTEMPORARY LETTERS ON THE FRENCH REVOLUTION. Article 34
Our Archaological Corner. Article 35
Untitled Article 36
ISRAEL AND ENGLAND. Article 36
REVIEWS. Article 39
ADDRESS OF P.G.M. BRO. HON. RICHARD VAUX, AT CENTENNIAL OF AMERICAN UNION LODGE. Article 43
A CONFESSION. Article 45
NOTES ON LITERATURE , SCIENCE AND ART. Article 46
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The Women Of Our Time.

she , too , once did not intend to remain au old maid . She had , like "Master Shallow" and his "lawsuit , " her little " fond expectations'' at one time . We all remember that good portrait Sir Walter Scott draAVS in " Guy Mannering " of the

old maid , Miss Bertram , Avith Ensign Binkie's letters in her escritoire , ( cherished souvenir ) , and his little I . O . U ' s ., and depend upon it many an old maid you or I meet and Avot of , has preserved the recollection , thoug h in some altered form and manner ,

of her Ensign Binlde ! Underneath those grey locks and that calm exterior still exists , believe me , a deal of " sentiment , " and many a most p leasant and valuable and friendly " atom , " amid the " atoms" Avith whom Ave

congregate and converse hour by hour , has quietly played that " role" of singleblessedness , because , as the Irishman said , " things Avent contrary , " and " it Avas all mighty disappointing . " I say this to defend " old maids" from the charge

commonly laid against them of Avanting " sentiment , " the ti'uth is , they are often the best example of its reality and its intensity ! But Ave must not shut out also

another side of the question . There are many ladies Avhom Ave all know , and for whom Ave ought to feel profound respect , who , for some reason or another , for " good and sufficient causes them thereto moving , " have remained single through choice , and become old maids by Brevet Rankin

, the lapse of time and the flight of years ! Many there are—most noble specimens of Avomanhood—doing their duty gallantly in all things , Avho have devoted themselves to a single life , perhaps in a sense of responsibility for others , AVIIO have accepted

the position God seemed to mark out for them ; and Avithout fuss , or affectation , or singularity , or pretension , have become willingly the old maid of their family circle , the old maid of the neighbourhood , the old maid of a large " kith and kin " of

troublesome boys and laughing girls . HOAV many we can recall and remember to-day , pleasant , educated , cultivated , refined , gentle , good , and generous , Avho Avere the deli ght of the society which they graced while they lived , aud are tenderly mourned hy those whom they have left behind . How many blameless lives , and unselfish aims , and loving words , and gracious Avorks , and

bettering influences , and happy associations can AVO join still with the term " old maid , " as our memory to-day surveys the " years that are past , " and recalls those figures Avhich fill , and those fond faces which seem to smile out from , the crowded canvas before us . NOAVI feel bound to

, speak honestly and clearly , and I think that the prejudice against old maids , and the jokes against old maids are very un-Avorthy . I do not mean to deny that here and there you will stumble upon the tattling old maidand the scandalous

, old maid , and the flirting old maid , and the bedizened old maid , and the soured old maid , and the cantankerous old maidyou Avill—but what I do say is , that they are the exceptions to the rule , and that those exceptions prove the rule to be the

very contrary . No doubt Avhen you come across her , a real mischievous old maid is a very disagreeable personality , and a godless old maid is a horror ; but such specimens of " old maidendom" are very feAv and far betAveen , and Avhen we do come across them Ave should all give them a " clear berth " as fast as Ave possibly can .

The Avriter of romances , or of novels , may bring in the vicious and meddlesome , and intriguing old maid , but as a general rule such exist only in noi'els and romances , and are not to be found in real life . The old maids I haA'e knoAvn— and I have met many in my career—have been all the

kindest of women and the best of friends . They have set to all around them a quiet example of being good , and doing good , they have been most useful to man , and most faithful to God in their time and generation . They have excelled in many

points and tastes—artistic , literary , benevolent , and humanitarian — they have been self-denying and sedulous in respect of their own lives and means , zealous Avorkers for the good of others ; true sisters of Mercy and Charity have they

proved themselves to be in their time and generation . And I would fain hope that Ave have heard the last Avords of detraction and disrespect against them ! You and I , kind reader , must know many a home , many a village many a family many a neighbourhood Avhere the old maid is as the " very salt of the earth , " shed-ling li g ht and purit y , and

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